For the woman who’s ready for the love of her life and wants to be with him already
You know exactly what you want in love but you keep ending up with men who don’t want the same things
You’re not the woman who needs to be convinced that she deserves love.
You’ve done the work on yourself, you’ve grown a lot & you’ve learned from the relationships that didn’t work. You’ve gotten clearer about who you are, what matters to you & what kind of relationship you actually want.
You know you want a man who is consistent, intentional, emotionally mature & ready to build something real.
You want marriage, to be with your forever partner & to build a family together.
You’re not looking for a man because you need someone to come save you. You’ve already built a life by yourself that you’re proud of.
You pay your own bills, you go on trips as you please, you’ve built the career, you’ve made your apartment your oasis, you handle your shit & you do it well.
You’re grateful for the woman you’ve become but you don’t want to keep doing all of it alone.
You want your person & that’s why dating has become so frustrating.
You meet a man you really like and suddenly something you were crystal clear about becomes something you're reconsidering.
You notice something doesn't match your standards but you give it a little more time.
When feelings get involved, you start questioning what you know & afterward, you're left thinking, “I knew this wasn't what I wanted so why did I keep entertaining it?”
You're not lacking standards or self awareness & you definitely don't need another TikTok explaining what an emotionally unavailable man looks like, you know.
What's missing is your ability to trust what you know & make your decisions from it when love is actually on the line.
Having standards isn't what changes your love life, deciding from them does.
& until the beliefs, patterns & identity underneath your decisions match the relationship you say you're ready for you can know exactly what you want and still keep experiencing something completely different.
That's what we're changing inside this 12 week 1:1 Mentorship.
When you trust what you want & actually decide from your standards, here’s what your love life gets to look like:
❣️ You’re dating men who are actually intentional about getting to know you because they’re looking for a real relationship too
❣️ You meet a man who doesn’t just check boxes on your “future husband” list, you genuinely like him, there’s chemistry, you have fun together & being with him feels GOOD
❣️ You’re with a man who shares your values, wants marriage, wants a family & is excited about building the same kind of future you’ve been dreaming about
❣️ You know where you stand with him because he’s consistent, clear about how he feels about you & his actions actually match the words coming out of his mouth
❣️ You get to relax into dating because you trust yourself, you know what you want, you know what matters to you & your decisions actually reflect it
❣️ You’re experiencing the kind of love where you feel considered, prioritized, supported & genuinely chosen by the man you’re choosing too
❣️ You’re planning trips together, spending days together, meeting each other’s families, talking about your future & creating memories with the person you actually want beside you for all of it
❣️ You get to look at the man you love & know “This is why nothing else worked out”
How we get you there
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We go straight to the root of why you can know what you want and still find yourself making decisions that don’t match it.
Together, we’ll find the beliefs underneath the dating patterns you keep repeating & shift the ones that are influencing who you choose, what you entertain & what you believe is available to you in love.
Once we know what’s actually making your decisions, we can finally change them.
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This is where knowing your standards becomes actually living by them.
We build the self trust to know what you want, trust what you see & stay anchored in it even when you meet a man you really like.
You’re becoming the woman whose choices actually match the relationship she says she’s ready for.
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This is where everything we’ve worked on starts showing up in your actual love life.
You’re dating from your new beliefs, showing up as the woman you’ve become & making decisions that match the relationship you’re ready for.
So instead of just knowing you want consistency, intention, commitment & marriage, those standards start shaping the men you entertain, the relationships you invest in & the love you allow yourself to experience.
You get to date feeling clear about what you want, confident in the decisions you’re making & excited about where your love life is going.
Everything included:
I know what you’re probably thinking
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Because this goes to the specific belief that’s blocking love - not general healing or mindset work. We find the exact thing that's been running in the background. We release it & replace it. Then we build a daily practice so it actually sticks. Nothing worked prior because of your hidden beliefs.
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A call every other week & Telegram support Monday to Friday. This was built exactly for the woman with a full life because that's exactly who needs this most & honestly? You’ll just continue to experience the same dating patterns with no change.
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That thought right there, that's the belief & it's exactly what we get to the root of in the first session. He exists. The real question is, are you going to let him find you?
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Good. I will never ask you to. Your standards are not the problem. They are proof of what you deserve. We protect that & we build the belief that your future man will meet them & is on his way to you.
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When your belief shifts, your reality shifts with it. I met my husband 5 months after doing this work. I did it alone, you have me by your side to get you there faster.
Choose your commitment
Real transformation takes time. Both options are designed to get you to the love of your life, choose the container that feels right for where you are.
Hi, I’m Lisbania & I lived this first
I’ll be your Love & Identity Mentor. My love story starts back in January 2021 when I had just gotten out of a relationship the month before. I was heartbroken because I really wanted to get married & have a family, and as a 27 year old I thought I was running out of time, finding love & starting a family felt further away than ever.
I decided I was going to write a "my future husband" list & jot down every single detail of who he was, from his personality, values, what he wanted his future to look like & how he'd treat me. I filled a whole page front & back. (I got super specific 😉)
I told myself I wouldn't tolerate nonsense from men anymore but that year I ended up being bitter, cold & angry towards men instead. I treated them badly. I didn't take them seriously because in my head they didn't really want me, they just wanted to have fun & I was over it.
The whole year went by & on New Year's I just felt so empty. I also turned 28, so you know, Saturn return things, everything started to get clearer. I went back to look at my future husband list & noticed I was not taking this seriously.
So when January 2022 came along, I got down to business. All the guys I was "talking to" I cut them off before they even realized, literally on some "y'all don't even know I left y'all in 2021" LOL. Anyways, I did just that & I got intentional with my time, my peace, & the way I treated myself.
I noticed I wanted things from my future husband so I started giving them to myself, buying flowers at the grocery store, going on movie dates alone, walking to the coffee shop, doing more self care. I even took a solo trip in March to go near the water, booked a hotel & just prayed to God & listened to His words. He told me to just be happy & everything else will follow & I did.
Then my cousin got married that June. I was one of her bridesmaids & we went to a resort to celebrate. Me doing my own thing, I saw my husband during lunchtime standing right in front of me — and like in the movies, cue scene, I saw bright lights around him & heard what had to be angels singing "hallelujah, hallelujah." He didn't notice me at first & when he walked away I told my cousin "Oh my God, his name is just like my dad's, I want him to be my daddy." LOL, true story.
The next morning at breakfast I walked in & he noticed me & walked right up to me — and the rest is history.
But basicallyyyyy, we dated for 7 weeks, got engaged in 7 months, got married 1 year & 8 months later & now we have a baby girl. I am so blessed & grateful for the day he entered my life because he's been everything I've ever imagined & more.
And I want the same for you, so if you're new here, welcome queen. Let me show you exactly how to attract the love of your life.